"I’ll have to tell you." Fuck off for real, dude. You ain’t telling me shit. I don’t care how much you used to weigh. I don’t care how much you currently weigh. Your weight is of no concern to me. The changes you made to your body may have been best for you, but don’t act like it’s what’s best for everyone.
Now let me tell YOU: not everyone who is fat can healthily lose weight. Not everyone who is fat wants to lose weight. If you were really concerned about my health or about fat people’s health, you would change your bullshit rhetoric to something that sounds more like, “Hey, do what’s best for your overall health,” when asked for your opinion, and I’m sure no fat person will ever ask you for your opinion, so go ahead and shut up forever.
You wouldn’t presume to know a thin person’s health, and you wouldn’t presume to know the -fix- of a thin person’s health. That’s how I know fucktrucks like you see me and fat people like me as less than a person, as someone who deserves less respect, and that’s why you feel entitled and audacious enough to come in my inbox, discount my story (because i should be skinny now, right?), and preach to me about MY health, which you know nothing about. You realize you look super fucking ignorant, right?
I’m strong, I’m “worth [my] salt,” and I’m empowered and capable and all of those appositives already. I don’t need to lose weight to prove that to you or anyone else. I’m happy and healthy at my current weight. Why do I need to change? So I make you more comfortable? So I take up less space? My body is mine and mine alone, and it’s a good body. It’s a valid body. People don’t have to be skinny to be worthy of respect. If you believe otherwise, you’re inhumane and abhorrent.
Go fuck yourself.